I donāt want to be walked over, but I also donāt want to start a fight. I just need to know what to say when someoneās rude without making things worse.
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Thatās such a common feelingāand honestly, a tough balance. Iāve had moments where I froze, and others where I said something I regretted. What worked for me is having a few calm phrases ready, like āIād prefer if we could speak respectfully,ā or āLetās not go there.ā It sets a boundary without throwing fuel on the fire. You can be direct and still stay cool.