I don’t feel lonely, but I do feel selective. I’m not searching for more people—just more honesty.
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Somewhere along the way, I stopped needing constant conversations. I started valuing quiet moments shared with the right people.
I look at my life and realize I can count my real friends on one hand. Sometimes it feels peaceful, sometimes unsettling.
I used to have many people around me. Now there are fewer, and I keep wondering—did I change, or is this just part of growing older?
I want peace, not control—and I’m trying to protect myself.
I don’t have the energy I used to, and every conflict feels expensive.
I’m present, but I don’t feel connected to anyone anymore.
I wasn’t like this before. I’ve changed, and I don’t fully understand why.
I’m not the same person I was back then. I worry that my old friends wouldn’t recognize who I am now.
Sometimes I feel guilty for losing touch. I wonder if that guilt is why I stay silent instead of reaching out.
My days are full, but I still miss old friends. I keep asking myself if being busy is really the reason I never reach out.
I often think about my childhood friends but never send the message. I wonder why reaching out suddenly feels so difficult.
Every time I try to talk, I worry I’ll say the wrong thing. I want to be close again, but I’m afraid that trying too hard will only make her pull away more.
There are nights when I replay conversations in my head, wondering what I did wrong. Her quietness makes me question my parenting more than any argument ever did.
We sit in the same room, yet rarely talk the way we used to. I feel like there are things we both want to say but never do. The silence feels heavy, not empty.
I noticed my daughter stopped telling me about her day. Our conversations became short, and even simple questions seemed to irritate her. I couldn’t understand when the closeness quietly disappeared.
As painful as it feels, part of me senses this moment is asking for something more.
