I don’t want to be walked over, but I also don’t want to start a fight. I just need to know what to say when someone’s rude without making things worse.
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I don’t want to be walked over, but I also don’t want to start a fight. I just need to know what to say when someone’s rude without making things worse.
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That’s such a common feeling—and honestly, a tough balance. I’ve had moments where I froze, and others where I said something I regretted. What worked for me is having a few calm phrases ready, like “I’d prefer if we could speak respectfully,” or “Let’s not go there.” It sets a boundary without throwing fuel on the fire. You can be direct and still stay cool.