My youngest just left for college last week, and suddenly the house feels so quiet. I kept busy with school runs, cooking, and weekend activities, and now I’m not sure what to fill my days with. Anyone else dealing with this empty nest feeling? How do you find new purpose or hobbies when you’ve been focused on your family for decades?
I went through this last year when my daughter moved away. At first I found myself rewatching old TV shows and scrolling aimlessly online. Then I signed up for a pottery class just to try something new. It was awkward flubbing clay at first, but I met a friendly group of neighbors, and now it’s my favorite weekly escape. Don’t pressure yourself to instantly have a “grand plan.” Try small things—a book club, a dance class, volunteering at the local library. Little steps led me to new friends and a sense of purpose again.