I used to fake confidence at reunions—now I just say, “This feels weird, right?” Turns out, naming the awkwardness makes it disappear. Honest connection beats small talk every time.
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I used to fake confidence at reunions—now I just say, “This feels weird, right?” Turns out, naming the awkwardness makes it disappear. Honest connection beats small talk every time.
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Lead with honesty and curiosity. Say something like, “It’s been a while—it feels a bit surreal seeing you again!” That breaks the tension and opens the door to real conversation. Avoid the temptation to pretend nothing’s changed; acknowledging change often deepens the connection.