I never thought I’d outgrow people in my 40s, but here I am. I want connection and honesty now—things some old friends just can’t offer anymore. And that’s okay.
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I’ve never been the kind of man to say “I love you.” But I show up, fix things, and bring home their favorite snacks. I hope they feel it.
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I once had to start saying “no,” and while it was tough, it helped me feel respected again and value my own kindness.
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